One of the biggest fears before having sex is that it might be boring. Many people rely on variety, playing different roles, using sex toys, etc. But does sex necessarily have to be naughty and with toys to be interesting? Doesn’t the idea of ​​who we are actually making love with then be lost? Of course, variety is a good thing, it maintains desire and surprise, but it should be applied sparingly and occasionally. Otherwise, the partner gets so used to the image of the nurse, the nun, the lawyer, the stripper, that the moment the woman stands before him as herself, he may not be aroused and desire her. The reverse is also true. Be careful with the suggestions you may make to your partner, the swing or the threesome can be misunderstood and instead of diversity in the bedroom, mistrust, depression and insecurity can be introduced. Try to find the balance between imagination and reality. In order to avoid boredom and monotony, experts advise to emphasize the change of positions, as well as the places for love. The bed is comfortable, but it’s not the only place where you can have an orgasm. In this way, you will diversify, experiment and remain yourself. And isn’t that exactly the desired effect?