You think that not making noise during sex is a matter of upbringing and intelligence. Don’t kid yourself the lack of sounds doesn’t give you an advantage. On the contrary, the louder you are in bed, the surer sign of your good sexual self-esteem, and self-esteem in general. Here are 5 reasons why we should express our pleasure during sex… 1. Breathing is audible. Even more so when we perform some physical activity, and who wouldn’t say that sex is not gymnastics. It is normal, at the climax of the pleasure, for breathing to become faster, to become deeper. In fact, it’s also a sign to your partner that you’re relaxing and enjoying your foreplay. It can also help regulate or, conversely, control the pace of the act, which is essential for achieving orgasm. 2. Imagine that you are stroking someone, and they are standing there speechless, their face does not change… What will go through your head? – He doesn’t love me, he gets angry, he feels indifference towards me… How then to interpret the lack of sound in bed during the partner’s caresses? The sounds we make during foreplay are also a sign to the beloved that his attitude is shared, that he manages to give pleasure, that emotions are as hot as his. You don’t need to recreate scenes from “When Harry Met Sally” – then Meg Ryan’s character achieves good effect by imitating a female orgasm in an ordinary diner over a cup of coffee with a friend – sounds that are natural and spontaneous are more valuable. 3. If you focus on showing decency while having sex, you risk not enjoying it at all. Any effort of aspiration, self-control, basically kills the relaxation, the experience of pleasure, the triggering of the higher synthesis of sex hormones, the release of body fluids, the unification of the rhythm and the increase of sensitivity to touch. Such sex is simply pointless! So, enjoy yourself by not holding back the sounds that come from your mouth. Listening to these from the partner also brings pleasure. The process is mutual. NEWS_MORE_BOX 4. Making sounds in bed indicates closeness, strong intimacy between partners. Nudity, and even sex, in itself does not always mean intimacy. In fact, a lower degree of self-control in bed can be treated as a vote of confidence in the partner, because there is a match between the two. 5. You don’t mind pooping during sex. This can only mean one thing – you feel comfortable in your own body and the sex you are having. Everyone would love a bed partner who feels good in it, right?