Hey there! Let’s talk about something real – the female orgasm. First off, it’s totally normal if it doesn’t happen every time you have sex. There are so many factors at play, from hormones to how comfy you feel in your relationship and even work stress.

Stress is a biggie. If you’re stressing about not climaxing, it can mess with your ability to actually reach that peak pleasure. It’s like a vicious cycle of fear and anxiety that can ruin the fun. So, instead of worrying about the end goal, focus on enjoying the ride. Trust me, it makes a big difference.

Now, let’s talk about pretending. Sure, it might seem like the polite thing to do, but it’s not doing anyone any favors. If you’re regularly faking it, something’s up. Maybe you’re not getting the right kind of stimulation you need.

If sex isn’t doing the trick, don’t be afraid to try a little solo exploration. Masturbation can be a game-changer. It helps you learn what your body likes so you can clue your partner in for a better time together.

And hey, feeling ashamed about not climaxing? That’s a no-go. There’s absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. In fact, talking about it with your partner can actually help you both figure out how to get there together. It’s all about finding the right kind of stimulation to reach that “finish line.”